There are many aspects to hearing aid use that are often overlooked, or not specifically addressed, that can make a tremendous difference in the success you will have in using these devices. As most users know, hearing aids cannot replace normal hearing. However, with an appropriate hearing aid selection, good quality products, consistent follow-up appointments, dedication from the user and fitting professional, and an understanding of some of the details I will discuss over the next few issues of “Choices After 50,” we can help you to hear better in most situations and improve your success in conversation.
One of the most glaring omissions from many hearing aid fittings is a discussion regarding the learning process involved in being a successful hearing aid user. In most cases, people feel that their hearing has gradually deteriorated over time and they are just now unable to hear clearly. I hear it all the time, “people today mumble” or “I just can’t hear soft talkers” or “if people pronounced their words clearly I wouldn’t have any problem.” These things may be true, but in the great majority of cases it is your ears that are the problem, not the way other people are speaking.
As your ears gradually lose their ability to hear over time, you becomes less able to clearly hear what is being said because your brain forgets what certain sounds are and what they mean. Things don’t sound clear because your ears aren’t able to pick up the soft speech sounds that are critical for you to understand what someone is trying to say. For example, the difference between words like “wish” and “which,” or “sit” and “fit.” If you add in some background noise, have the television on, or if someone turns their back while they’re talking, then it all sounds like a mumble. This occurs because your brain has forgotten what those sounds sound like, what they mean, and how they fit into the context of what is being said. With the use of hearing aids this will improve over time because your brain becomes more and more used to hearing those sounds again and understanding what they mean. Hence, there is a learning process in hearing aid use that typically lasts several months.
Perhaps the most common comparison to hearing is your sense of sight, and more specifically, how glasses are used to address this problem. Glasses do an excellent job of “fixing” your vision because they simply help the lens in your eye to focus light more appropriately on your retina. If the glasses are fit properly, then things become clear and most people who wear them would have close to 20/20 vision. Unfortunately, it is not this simple with your sense of hearing. In most cases, people need hearing aids because they have nerve cell loss in their hearing organs, and this is not something that can be “fixed.” Nerve cell loss is permanent, and it means that there is a section of your inner ear (i.e. an area responsible for certain types of sound) that has been damaged, making those particular sounds very difficult to hear. Hearing aids function to amplify and clarify each of these sounds that a person struggles to hear, and this custom approach can take a long time to address.
The comparison between hearing and vision really becomes complex when you begin to consider all the environmental factors that influence your ability to hear and see. With vision you basically have light, dark, and any obstacles that may be in your line of sight. A person looks like the same person if it’s bright, dimly lit, if they are in a restaurant or their own living room; but, they very well may not sound the same based on the environment around them. A person you have no trouble speaking with one-on-one may be exceedingly hard to understand when in a room full of people, if the TV is on, if it’s windy outside, or if they’re not looking directly at you. This is not to mention if they are in another room, have their back to you, are trying to talk between bites of a sandwich, are doing the dishes, or getting something from the fridge. A person may look the same while doing all of those things, but they definitely don’t sound the same if you have a hearing loss.
So, what was the point of all that? It is basically to reiterate that hearing aids take time to get used to and learning HOW to hear well with your hearing aids can be a great challenge. They aren’t like glasses where you put them on and things become clear, it takes time and patience to become a successful hearing aid user. However, don’t despair and think all hope is lost. Hearing aids today are extremely effective and the use of digital technology allows us to adjust and fine-tune them as many times as necessary until you’re satisfied with the quality of sound you’re receiving. This technological side of things is supported with assistance through something called aural rehabilitation. Aural rehabilitation basically gives you a better understanding of how you can help yourself hear better by recognizing and adjusting to different environments (e.g. where to sit at a dinner table to hear better with a crowd of people around), and teaches you how to repair broken conversations so that you aren’t just saying “What??” all the time. It will take time, that is a certainty, but if you can appreciate and understand that things WILL improve if you’re patient with the process, then you’ve already got the battle half won.
If you would like any further explanation of the learning process, or any other important details about hearing aid use, please contact your audiologist as they are the hearing experts and will be better able to address your specific issues. If you would like a consultation with me directly then please do not hesitate to call and make an appointment. I hope you enjoyed the article and continue to enjoy the additional segments of hearing health care that I will cover in the upcoming issues of this newspaper. If there is ever a specific topic that is of particular interest to someone out there please pass it along and I will gladly give it consideration for a future article. Thanks for reading!!